Mel King
Uncommon
A Black Man’s Journey
-Character of Mel King
About The Book
Uncommon Vol. 1
A Black Man’s Journey
The book is about the life of a young man, who grew up in South Central Los Angeles. Despite many factors that were against him, such as gang wars that were commonplace in his community, father disappeared when he entered high school, and the family was continually financially lacking for basic needs.
In spite of these odds against him, Mel continued to demonstrate an excellent spirit that was readily discernable to persons in authority and trusted him with responsibility uncommon for someone his age. When Mel’s father disappeared, and the family had limited resource choices, Mel knew he had to do something different that no one else in his family had done. . . Get a degree. And, Mel knew the family could not afford to send him to school, so he chose to enter the Air Force to obtain assistance for schooling through the G.I. Bill. While in high school, where Mel’s spirit of excellence was recognized by a teacher, he coached Mel to an elected office in the school. It was no different in Mel’s first assignment in the Air Force. His attention to detail was observed and he was given the opportunity to perform and hold positions several grades above his rank.
Mel’s first assignment, often had himself and another airman supervising airmen 2 – 3 grades above ourselves. He was tasked to train a sergeant to head his department since a sergeant was minimum paygrade to do so. After 10 months received orders for Thailand. While there, was recognized as “Airman of the Month,” and then selected to represent the base as “Airman of the Year,” at a competition held in the Philippines. He was unable to compete as he received orders to attend the Academy Prep School. Unbeknownst to him, the 1st sergeant at his first assignment submitted his name because of his entrance scores for the Air Force. After a year with the Prep School, he entered the Air Force Academy. It wasn’t long after arriving at the Academy that he submitted his resignation. Normally, when a cadet submits a resignation, they see a colonel and are processed out that same week. Not so with him. He saw the Commandant of Cadets, a general. He rejected his resignation, (He found out later – only the second time in the Academy’s history) but gave him 45 days to reconsider. At the end of 45 days, he saw the general again and the General signed the papers.
He had nine months remaining of his enlistment term so he was given orders to report to an Air Force base in New Jersey. Once again, he took over a department that was previously ran by a sergeant three paygrades above him. This went so well that the squadron commander asked if he could send him to Officer Candidate School (OCS). Once again, Mel turned down an opportunity, as an enlisted person, to become an officer because he did not want the service as a career. General Olds, in one of Mel’s exit interviews from the Academy, said, “The service does and has recognized your innate leadership; which, may not necessarily be so in the civilian sector where politics and envy can come into play; and is more decisive.” When Mel entered the civilian sector, these words rang true many times.
Reviews
Reviewed by: Jay Miller
Rating: 9.3/10
“Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey Vol. 1” by Mel King is a riveting memoir that takes readers on an extraordinary journey through the life of a Black man navigating the intricate dynamics of race, discrimination, and personal achievement in America. Having grown up as a Baby Boomer in South Central Los Angeles during the tumultuous 1960s and 1970s, King’s story resonated deeply with my own experiences of subtle discrimination despite my MBA from Loyola Marymount University and a successful corporate career.
A Narrative of Resilience
King’s writing style is both engaging and introspective, drawing readers into his life’s narrative with eloquence and sincerity. The book covers his first assignment in the Air Force, where he was charged with supervising fellow airmen who were two to three ranks higher than himself. This uncommon experience illustrates the tenacity and skills that King possesses, as well as the institutional challenges that frequently arose due to systemic discrimination. King captures this struggle vividly,
making his story relatable to anyone who has faced adversity head-on.
Chronicles of a Unique Career
What sets “Uncommon” apart from other memoirs is its ability to weave personal anecdotes with broader societal issues. King reflects on the hurdles he faced, including a significant promotion to lead his division under challenging circumstances. His journey continues as he recounts being honored as “Airman of the Month” and later representing his base at a competition in the Philippines. Although duty orders prevented him from competing for “Airman of the Year,” the recognition showcased King’s exceptional capabilities without the backing that often accompanies successful individuals of color in similar positions.
Significance of His Choices
One of the most compelling aspects of King’s memoir is the insight into the choices he was forced to make, particularly when he resigned from the Air Force Academy after receiving unique recognition that few others could claim. His encounter with the Commandant of Cadets, a general who refused to
process his resignation, adds an element of drama and depth to the narrative. This scenario was not just a personal reflection but a microcosm of broader themes regarding opportunity and access for people based on race.
Comparative Analysis
While many memoirs focus solely on the individual’s rise to success, King’s account dives deeper into the internal and external battles he faced throughout his journey. His candid discussion regarding the rejection of offers to attend Officer Candidate School reflects a critical examination of societal
expectations versus personal aspirations. This is particularly compelling for readers who find themselves in similar crossroads in their own lives. King’s honesty about his feelings compounds the book’s relatability, ensuring that its themes resonate across different demographics.
A Call to Action for Readers
This memoir is not just a collection of personal stories; it’s a profound commentary on society, race relations, and personal identity in the contemporary landscape. Readers looking for inspiration will find that “Uncommon” serves as a breath of fresh air in the genre of memoirs and biographies. Moreover, King’s narrative offers significant benefits to its readers. By purchasing and reading this book, one is not only engaging with a powerful story, but they are also being introduced to key
lessons about resilience, leadership, and the importance of self-awareness amidst challenges. King’s experiences encourage readers to reflect on their own paths, pushing them to recognize their capabilities and the unique contributions they can make despite societal barriers.
A Call to Action for Readers
In conclusion, “Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey Vol. 1” by Mel King is a powerful memoir that speaks to the challenges faced by a talented Black man in America, filled with lessons that resonate universally. Its profound insights make it a valuable addition to any reader’s collection, inspiring them to confront their struggles with courage and resolve. King’s voice is a beacon for those who aim not just to overcome obstacles but to excel in spite of them. I wholeheartedly recommend this book to anyone seeking encouragement and wisdom on their journey through life’s complexities.
Reviews
Reviewed by: Ben Howard
Rating: 9.6/10
In “Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey Vol. 1,” author Mel King shares a profoundly personal and powerful narrative, chronicling his life as a Black man navigating the complexities of systemic discrimination and personal achievement. This book is not only a memoir but also a testament to resilience, ambition, and the struggle for recognition in a world often determined by race.
Understanding the Author’s Background
Mel King, as noted in the book, grew up in South Central Los Angeles during the turbulent 60s and 70s—an environment rife with socio-economic challenges. King’s experiences resonate deeply with many who have faced similar circumstances. Armed with an MBA from Loyola Marymount University
and versatile career spanning sectors like aerospace, King paints a vivid picture of his professional life plagued by subtle, pervasive discrimination, overshadowed by an unwavering commitment to excellence.
Writing Style
King’s writing is engaging and accessible, seamlessly blending narrative storytelling with insightful commentary on race and identity. He adopts a conversational tone that invites readers in, allowing them to partake in his journey while fostering a deep sense of empathy and understanding. His ability to articulate complex emotions related to his experiences is commendable, making the serious themes approachable without diminishing their impact.
The Unique Narrative
What sets “Uncommon” apart is its authenticity. King shares his ascent from the challenges of growing up in a disadvantaged neighborhood to his achievements in the military and corporate world. Significant milestones, such as training personnel at a much higher pay grade and becoming the
“Airman of the Month,” are portrayed with both pride and the painful acknowledgment of the recognition often evading him.
- The narrative gives an eye-opening depiction of the military experience, particularly how an
enlisted person’s journey can diverge into unexpected opportunities. - King’s admission of turning down officer candidacy opportunities signifies a profound
commentary on meritocracy versus recognition based on external factors like race.
Emotional and Societal Reflections
Throughout the book, King presents a range of emotions, from determination to disappointment, inviting readers to reflect on broader societal implications regarding race and success. As he
discusses his tenure as a lead negotiator and outstanding performer in various roles, it becomes evident that his story is a microcosm of many Black professionals’ experiences—where systemic barriers continue to overshadow individual capabilities and achievements.
The Benefits of Reading “Uncommon”
Reading “Uncommon” offers numerous benefits:
- Inspiration: King’s journey serves as an inspiration for anyone facing adversity, reminding
readers of the possibility of triumph against the odds. - Awareness: The book heightens awareness about the subtle manifestations of discrimination
that many minorities face in professional settings. - Empathy: Readers gain a deeper understanding of the psychological impacts of systemic
discrimination, fostering greater empathy towards those who share similar experiences. - Reflection on Society: King’s insights encourage critical reflection on societal structures and
the imperative for change regarding equity and recognition in the workplace.
Final Thoughts
“Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey Vol. 1” is more than just a memoir; it’s a call to action for recognition of merit in a society that often overlooks it. Mel King’s story is vividly poignant and relatably human, making it a must-read for anyone interested in the intersections of race, ambition, and professional life. This book will resonate with readers from all walks of life, providing valuable perspectives and encouraging dialogue around race, bias, and success. It is a compelling narrative that motivates change and understanding, earning it an impressive rating of 9.6/10. Engage with this remarkable journey, and you may find reflections of your own struggles and victories along the way.
About The Author
Mel King
A person of color, demonstrating excellent performance from high school, the Air Force, and ultimately in corporate America. In high school, he participated and lettered in swimming and football, wrote for the school newspaper, held an elected office, and made the Honor Roll. The impetus for these achievements can be traced back to an Industrial Arts teacher, a Mr. Alvin Hayes, who took an interest in Mel, thought he was Uncommon, and suggested that he participate in one of the school’s council positions. Unfortunately, this had been the one and only person who ever actively mentored Mel. Because his father became missing his sophomore year in high school, he had to work at night to help with the household and provide for his own needs. Mel was demonstrating what a person, regardless of color, can do with a positive attitude, a willingness to succeed, and, recognize that a negative environment does not have to defeat you.
Uncommon – A Black Man’s Journey is the first of three books, and I believe my story is very apropos in light of three social norms of today. There is first of all, the emphasis on racial justice. The movie, Hidden Figures was about a group of ladies who helped America put a man into space and orbit our planet by the ability to perform calculations that computers do today. Unfortunately, at the time, they received very little recognition for their effort. I entered the corporate world just six years after this depiction and you can imagine there would have been very little change in societies attitude toward black individuals.
Secondly, If you have seen the mini-series, “Roots,” by Alex Haley, I believe my story is a modern day parallel of Roots. I had to face similar hardships, prejudices, and ignorant behavior, just because I am a person of color.
Thirdly, and once again looking at the norms of our society, people are being chosen for positions, not because they are capable, have experience, or their intelligence, but on some arbitrary criteria such as being female, black, gay, lesbian, etc. That was not so with me. I routinely was put into positions because of my ability, yet, I receive no or very little recognition or reward for my effort (a hidden figure). Those of us who are Black are very offended when we see another person of color selected for a position, not because they have the experience but only because they are black.
Reviews
“A Great & Inspiring Read”
Reviewed in the United States on August 10, 2023
Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey by Mel King is an absorbing and insightful nonfiction account chronicling King’s extraordinary ventures, thoughtfully shared with the reading public. As a black man during his high school years, King’s peers did not merely consider him ‘uncommon,’ but rather perceived him as truly distinct. Alongside his influential friends Greg and Red, he held a significant sway on the school campus. The book delves into King’s remarkable experiences in the Vietnam War, where he served in the Airforce, and his tireless efforts to effect positive change for black individuals. Mel King’s contributions were rightfully acknowledged, lauding his exceptional performance, unwavering dedication, and remarkable leadership qualities.
King’s writing exhibits a captivating blend of intrigue and humor. One amusing instance is when he recounted a rather surreal episode where he mistook a rice bug for a gunshot wound. His vivid narrative left readers amused yet empathetic as he described the pain and the subsequent urge to retaliate against the tiny intruders. Beyond the humor, King’s writing style is refreshingly lucid and conversational, akin to engaging in an enlightening chat with a close friend. Throughout the book, the author effortlessly explains complex aircraft details with an approachable and knowledgeable tone, making it accessible even to those unfamiliar with military aviation. Additionally, King expands his narrative to encompass other places he served, such as the Philippines and Bangkok, enriching the reader’s understanding of his global experiences. Having delved into Mel King’s compelling narrative, I found myself forming a strong connection with the author. His candid storytelling provided genuine insight into his life and character, making me feel as though I had personally gotten to know him. Mel King’s gifted writing skillfully portrays his ‘uncommon’ adventures, ensuring a rewarding reading experience for any audience.
It is evident that Mel King’s endeavors made a meaningful impact, and his life’s journey is both enlightening and inspirational. I recommend this book to everyone seeking a compelling narrative that exemplifies the power of resilience and determination in the face of adversity. Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey stands as a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the significance of making a difference in the world.
Reviews
“5 out of 5 stars, It’s quite an eye opener to any level of reader”
Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2023
Mel’s journey begins back in his high school days in center city Los Angeles, and right from the start, you can see he’s a force to be reckoned with. He excels academically and holds an elected office, all while navigating through the challenges of being different and staying true to himself amidst all the pressures of society.
As I continued reading, I was utterly uplifted by Mel’s resilience and determination. He’s a true role model for all of us. Throughout the book, I found myself in awe of Mel’s strength of character. Despite facing temptations and challenges in his surroundings, he chose to stay away from smoking, drinking, and drugs. That’s a testament to his unwavering commitment to his principles. Mel’s journey through the Air Force during the Vietnam War was nothing short of groundbreaking. He earned recognition for his performance, dedication, and leadership abilities at every turn, which speaks volumes about his talent and impact. As a Black American, Mel’s experiences shed light on the hurdles he faced and the barriers he bravely broke for people of color. His story is not only empowering but also an essential reminder that we can overcome adversity and make a positive difference.
This book is a must-read for anyone seeking a story of courage, perseverance, and the power of staying true to oneself.
Reviews
“An Amazing Journey”
Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey by Mel King is an absorbing and insightful nonfiction account chronicling King’s extraordinary ventures, thoughtfully shared with the reading public. As a black man during his high school years, King’s peers did not merely consider him ‘uncommon,’ but rather perceived him as truly distinct. Alongside his influential friends Greg and Red, he held a significant sway on the school campus. The book delves into King’s remarkable experiences in the Vietnam War, where he served in the Air Force, and his tireless efforts to effect positive change for black individuals. Mel King’s contributions were rightfully acknowledged, lauding his exceptional performance, unwavering dedication, and remarkable leadership qualities.
King’s writing exhibits a captivating blend of intrigue and humor. One amusing instance is when he recounted a rather surreal episode where he mistook a rice bug for a gunshot wound. His vivid narrative left readers amused yet empathetic as he described the pain and the subsequent urge to retaliate against the tiny intruders. Beyond the humor, King’s writing style is refreshingly lucid and conversational, akin to engaging in an enlightening chat with a close friend. Throughout the book, the author effortlessly explains complex aircraft details with an approachable and knowledgeable tone, making it accessible even to those unfamiliar with military aviation. Additionally, King expands his narrative to encompass other places he served, such as the Philippines and Bangkok, enriching the reader’s understanding of his global experiences. Having delved into Mel King’s compelling narrative, I found myself forming a strong connection with the author. His candid storytelling provided genuine insight into his life and character, making me feel as though I had personally gotten to know him. Mel King’s gifted writing skillfully portrays his ‘uncommon’ adventures, ensuring a rewarding reading experience for any audience.
It is evident that Mel King’s endeavors made a meaningful impact, and his life’s journey is both enlightening and inspirational. I recommend this book to everyone seeking a compelling narrative that exemplifies the power of resilience and determination in the face of adversity. Uncommon: A Black Man’s Journey stands as a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the significance of making a difference in the world.
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Uncommon Vol. 1
A Black Man’s Journey
